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Redefining A.C.T.ion

September 01, 20237 min read

Redefining Action

Life is series of moments, what will you do with yours? When you are living a Momentous Life, the art of harnessing awareness, gratitude, and expectance becomes your guiding compass. These powerful principles empower you to set intentions, strategize with purpose, and execute actions that are powerful, meaningful and feasible. In this version of your life, you have the profound ability to relish every instant while sculpting the grand vision for your life and business. The path may not always be easy, but it is simple. You can gracefully navigate your journey, seamlessly blending forward momentum with the art of serenity by committing to a few simple concepts.

Whether you're scaling the corporate hierarchy, spearheading a noble cause, or building your entrepreneurial empire, the key is the potent utilization of every moment. Success will find you when you understand your place within the larger narrative and learn to extract maximum value from each moment. While external resources might seem crucial, the truth often lies in leveraging the abundant arsenal you already possess. Let's reimagine the concept of taking ACTION from a fresh perspective.

Allow me to share a timeless tale penned by Price Pritchett, a tale that resonates deeply with our journey. Picture a determined fly, perched on a windowsill, yearning to escape into the vast expanse beyond. With unwavering zeal, it repeatedly hurls itself against the glass, its wings quivering with futile exertion. The outside world beckons yet remains tantalizingly out of reach. In this narrative, success isn't synonymous with trying harder; it's about recognizing the door just a foot away. A subtle shift backward, a mere fraction of its initial endeavor, propels the fly into the very freedom it so ardently sought.

In your pursuit of success, you may have encountered the age-old adage advocating sheer persistence and unrelenting determination. Perhaps you've internalized the belief that another degree, a different certification, or burning the midnight oil holds the key to your desired elevation—whether that's a promotion, a thriving venture, or the fulfillment of your dreams. But consider this: What if the seeds of triumph were already within your grasp, needing only for you to plant them in the right environment?

Acceptance

Creating an awareness of the version of yourself best suited for the dreams you hold may require a new mindset. It requires you to not only seize every moment but to infuse it with clarity, purpose, authenticity, and the unfaltering confidence that you possess all the essential ingredients for triumph. Your journey is an intricate dance, where each step forward resonates with the music you create for yourself. Let this narrative reshape your perspective, encouraging you to embrace your power, recognize your worth, and move unapologetically toward your aspirations.

In the pursuit of our dreams, one fundamental truth stands tall: understanding our circumstances serves as the compass guiding our path toward progress. Yet, navigating this terrain becomes intricate when our perception of reality becomes clouded. Often, we conjure up tales of limitations (disguised as excuses) and pin our struggles on external foes (also known as excuses), inadvertently allowing these narratives to overshadow our true position.

Have you ever found yourself trapped in the belief that your journey is destined to be one of perpetual struggle? Perhaps you've convinced yourself that certain aspirations are reserved for others, and not attainable for someone like you. These narratives, spun from self-doubt and fear, conveniently absolve us from the weight of failure. It's human nature to seek external reasons for our unfulfilled desires, conveniently placing the blame elsewhere. Start with profound gratitude. You will never have more of what you want, until you want what you already have.

Collaboration

At every moment, you liberate yourself from self-imposed barriers and discover the boundless potential that lies within you. Every situation you encounter holds the key to a reality that exists beyond what the situation seems to be. Pause, reflect, and strip away the layers. What truly lies at the heart of your circumstance? What do you genuinely yearn for? What can you be grateful for right now? In this introspective journey, embrace honesty as your guiding light. Allow yourself to fully experience your emotions, for they are the compass directing you toward fulfillment. Just as stars illuminate the night sky, your emotions illuminate the path toward your true calling. It's time to silence the voice that insists you ought to be an accountant (because your counselor said you were good at math), when your heart longs to design and produce enchanting events. Remember that time you orchestrated a baby shower for your niece with finesse—still talked about by friends—and acknowledge the talent that resides within you.

There is power in embracing reality and discarding excuses. It is the realization that the life you envision is not confined by predetermined boundaries, but rather shaped by the contours of your dreams. As a trailblazing female entrepreneur, harness the power of authenticity and self-awareness to manifest the destiny you've always dared to dream. The road ahead may be uncertain, but it is uniquely yours and the promise of boundless achievement is there if you know where to look.

Transformation

The journey of a female entrepreneur is a voyage of self-discovery, a quest to unveil your true essence beyond the constraints imposed by society, relationships, or financial circumstances. It's about embracing the version of you that resonates with your divine calling, a journey that commences with a heart full of gratitude. The path to transformation begins by acknowledging your current blessings and finding contentment within them—a fundamental principle that opens the door to manifesting your desires.

Pause for a moment and reflect on the treasures within your grasp, the aspects of your life that fill your heart with joy. These are the seeds of gratitude—the seeds that nurture the soil of your aspirations. Identify the endeavors that ignite your passion to such an extent that you'd willingly dedicate your time without expecting monetary returns. More often than not, you're already engaging in these pursuits wholeheartedly. Now, ask yourself: Where might you have underestimated your potential? If you need help, consider reaching out to a confidante who shares your dreams of conquering the world. Even if your grand venture is yet to take shape, cherish the unwavering support of a kindred spirit. Not everyone has support, so this is a treasure trove of encouragement and strength.

You may wonder what happens when the entrepreneurial path becomes a solitary journey, when the heights you aim for seem isolated and distant? Remember, the road to success is not without its stretches of solitude. Not everyone will comprehend your vision or feel the passion that drives you to exchange a stable corporate position for the role of an event planner, a creator of joyous celebrations. Yet, authenticity unveils clarity – stand steadfast in your truth, unapologetically embracing your dreams. Attend those event planning expos, find a meet-up with people in that industry, immerse yourself in the ambiance of your aspirations, and trust that your time will come, attracting the right clients to your doorstep.

The compass guiding your voyage towards a fulfilling, remarkable life often rests within your own hands. Be prepared for whatever season you find yourself in. Nothing lasts forever. What is good today will be gone tomorrow. Also, when things are not going well, eventually things will change. Equip yourself to manage the dark and keep your shades around for when the light shines. It's time to relinquish the notion of external forces delivering your dreams gift-wrapped with a bow, for such anticipation only begets needless delays in experiencing true joy. Are you unintentionally forfeiting the magic of present moments while chasing monumental ones on the horizon? It's a matter of recalibrating your expectations, an essential principle that shapes your reality.

After all, what you expect is what you'll receive, and while most shy away from expecting, fearing disappointment, you have the power to reframe this narrative. Rather than tirelessly seeking external validation, position yourself as the source of expertise and magnificence. Consider this: How many lives could benefit from your knowledge and skills, if only they were aware of your capabilities? You needn't orchestrate the entire symphony; take center stage with the talents you possess (and rightfully charge for them). If you have a lingering voice whispering, "I can't do that," we should talk.

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Malaika Simmons

Malaika is the CEO of Momentology Media, LLC and creator of The Momentology Method™, an intentional framework for living that she uses to show servant-leading women executives and high performers how to design an impactful career, business, and life. Through Momentology Media, LLC she uses Human-Centered Design principles to provide thought leadership, motivational speaking, empathy-based corporate training, and executive coaching services helping people and teams increase performance and productivity through insight and impact.

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